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Los padres desempe\u00f1an un papel crucial en la facilitaci\u00f3n del aprendizaje y, seg\u00fan el psic\u00f3logo del desarrollo\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em>Gordon Neufeld<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><\/a> \u00a0, pueden crear el contexto en el que se produce el aprendizaje. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>En Clonlara, creemos que construir relaciones familiares s\u00f3lidas prepara a los estudiantes para alcanzar su m\u00e1ximo potencial, educativo y m\u00e1s all\u00e1.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Loida Ca\u00f1izares Dom\u00e9nech<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><\/strong> \u00a0, directora de nuestro <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Programa de Espa\u00f1ol<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a> , madre que educa en casa y bloguera de\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em>Galletas <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span> \u00a0\u00a0y Abrazos <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a> \u00a0, destaca la necesidad de darles a nuestros hijos lo mejor de nuestro tiempo, y mucho. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Compartiendo su experiencia personal, ofrece consejos pr\u00e1cticos para construir relaciones familiares s\u00f3lidas, incluso cuando la \u201ctiran\u00eda de lo urgente\u201d amenaza con distraernos\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mi casa est\u00e1 sucia. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>S\u00ed, ya s\u00e9. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Todas est\u00e1is pensando: “Seguro que no es para tanto. La m\u00eda est\u00e1 much\u00edsimo peor. Etc, etc…” Pero creedme, est\u00e1 sucia. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Una vista simple no lo parece. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero he estado de mudanza recientemente, y me llev\u00f3 unas cuantas sorpresas.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

A lo mejor la descripci\u00f3n de mi casa os resulta familiar. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Repartidos por distintas partes del suelo, que m\u00e1s o menos consigo mantener limpio, aparecen juguetes de distintas formas y tama\u00f1os, libros, l\u00e1pices de colores, cartulinas\u2026 con los que nos vamos tropezando.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Los platos sucios en la pila de la cocina nunca consiguen desaparecer. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>El cesto de la ropa sucia nunca est\u00e1 vac\u00edo y la monta\u00f1a de ropa para doblar crece mucho m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido de lo que decrece.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Como dec\u00eda, alrededor de los muebles, sof\u00e1s, estantes y dem\u00e1s, el suelo est\u00e1 limpio. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero por favor, no intent\u00e9is moverlos y mirar debajo.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Mi coche transporta una mezcla de juguetes, trocitos de galleta, libros y botellas de agua. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Y podr\u00eda seguir con la nevera, el horno o los estantes que est\u00e1n demasiado altos para establecer contacto visual con ellos, pero creo que hab\u00e9is captado la idea.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Mi casa es un hogar, no un palacio. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Es acogedor, est\u00e1 lo bastante limpio como para mantenernos sanos o para que nuestros amigos vengan a visitarnos, tiene velitas perfumadas y luces c\u00e1lidas, y huele a vainilla. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Es nuestro hogar. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero no est\u00e1 preparado para una visita real inesperada. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>La raz\u00f3n es simple: no me paso el d\u00eda limpiando. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Supongo que en opini\u00f3n de muchos, deber\u00eda hacerlo, ya que estoy todo el d\u00eda en casa. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero no lo hago.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

No me interpret\u00e9is mal, me encanta el orden y la limpieza. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Desde muy peque\u00f1a el desorden me creaba ansiedad, necesitaba tener todo perfectamente limpio y ordenado a mi alrededor. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>As\u00ed que cuando lleg\u00f3 nuestra hija naci\u00f3 y tomamos la decisi\u00f3n de que yo me quedase en casa con ella y educarla en el hogar, tambi\u00e9n tomamos otra decisi\u00f3n: priorizar. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Decidimos que nuestra hija ser\u00eda lo primero y m\u00e1s importante.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nuestros hijos necesitan lo mejor de nuestro tiempo, y en gran cantidad. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>A veces cometemos el error de creer que, porque estamos en casa con nuestros hijos, les estamos dedicando el tiempo que necesitamos. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero no necesariamente es as\u00ed. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Cuando estamos constantemente ocupados con nuestras muchas obligaciones, hasta el punto que nos falta el tiempo y la energ\u00eda para sentarnos a jugar con nuestros hijos, algo estamos haciendo mal. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Cuando al terminar el d\u00eda nuestra casa est\u00e1 impecable pero nuestros zapatos no est\u00e1n sucios de pasear con nuestros peque\u00f1os, algo hemos hecho mal. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Si hemos conseguido terminar todas las tareas educativas que hab\u00edamos preparado para ese d\u00eda, pero no nos duele la tripa de tanto re\u00edr, algo hemos hecho mal.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Algunas veces, en nuestra preocupaci\u00f3n por dar a nuestros hijos lo mejor, por ofrecerles un hogar limpio y acogedor, por encontrar el curr\u00edculum perfecto, por realizar con ellos todas las actividades <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>que creemos que necesitamos\u2026 nos olvidamos de darles lo \u00fanico que realmente necesitamos: a nosotros.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Como dice el Dr. Gordon Neufeld: \u201cEl secreto de ser padres no estriba en lo que un padre o madre hace, sino en lo que ambos padres son para el ni\u00f1o. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Cuando un ni\u00f1o busca contacto y cercan\u00eda con nosotros, nos convertimos en criadores, confortadores, gu\u00edas, modelos, maestros o entrenadores. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Para un ni\u00f1o bien vinculado con nosotros, somos la base desde donde puede aventurarse al mundo; <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>somos el refugio al cual se puede regresar; <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>su fuente de inspiraci\u00f3n.\u201d <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>(Regreso al v\u00ednculo).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Todas esas cosas son importantes, pero ninguna de ellas supera la necesidad de que tengan nuestros hijos de estar con nosotros, de vincularse con nosotros, de sentir que no hay nada m\u00e1s importante en el mundo para nosotros que ellos. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Y eso solo lo conseguiremos pasando mucho tiempo de calidad juntos.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Mi casa est\u00e1 sucia, es cierto. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Hemos renunciado a una casa perfecta. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero a cambio hemos obtenido mucho m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Hemos obtenido risas y juegos desde que nos despertamos, antes incluso de salir de la cama; <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>sesiones de abrazos a cualquier hora del d\u00eda; <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>tardes acurrucadas en el sof\u00e1 leyendo un libro juntas; <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>largos paseos por el campo observando insectos, recogiendo flores y acariciando caballos; <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>tardes enteras jugando a la pelota en el jard\u00edn oa un buen juego de mesa, largas conversaciones en las que me cuenta sus preocupaciones y alegr\u00edas, y yo le cuento las m\u00edas cuando ten\u00eda su edad…<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Hemos obtenido un lugar lleno de juegos, risas y abrazos, sin prisa y sin mirar el reloj. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Hemos obtenido un lugar lleno de amor y confianza, en el que podemos descansar tranquilos sabiendo que las personas siempre estar\u00e1n por encima de todo lo dem\u00e1s. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Hemos cambiado nuestra casa por un hogar.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Hace tiempo tomamos la decisi\u00f3n de que lo urgente no robar\u00eda el tiempo a lo importante. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero es una decisi\u00f3n que debemos seguir tomando cada d\u00eda, en cada momento. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Cada vez que estoy organizando mis tareas del d\u00eda, necesito volver a tomar la misma decisi\u00f3n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Combinar la educaci\u00f3n de mi hija con mi trabajo como directora del programa en espa\u00f1ol de Clonlara no siempre es f\u00e1cil. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Cuando las muchas obligaciones me abruman, y me hacen perder de vista lo importante, estos peque\u00f1os trucos me funcionan:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Recordar porqu\u00e9 escogimos este estilo de vida<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n

Recordar porqu\u00e9 hacemos lo que hacemos. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Tenemos un peque\u00f1o \u201cdocumento\u201d muy bonito que creamos en familia, que es nuestra \u201cMisi\u00f3n\u201d. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Ah\u00ed detallamos qu\u00e9 deseamos obtener con esta forma de vivir y de aprender. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Hay muchas razones, pero la m\u00e1s importante es, para poder pasar mucho tiempo juntos, y crear recuerdos y conexiones que durar\u00e1n toda la vida. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Leer ese documento a menudo me ayuda a volver a poner el foco en lo realmente importante.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Lev\u00e1ntame temprano<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n

En \u00e9pocas de mucho trabajo me ayuda a levantarme un poco antes de lo habitual. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>De esta manera tengo un poco de tiempo para m\u00ed, para organizar el d\u00eda y para adelantar parte del trabajo antes de que el d\u00eda juntos comience.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Planificar el d\u00eda por adelantado<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n

Utilizo ese tiempo temprano en la ma\u00f1ana para organizar el d\u00eda. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Creo una lista de tareas y las cl\u00e1sicas seg\u00fan su nivel de importancia o urgencia. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Utilizo un c\u00f3digo de colores para separar las tareas que necesitan ser hechas ese d\u00eda de aquellas que podr\u00edan esperar si no diera tiempo a hacerlas. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Me aseguro de que las tareas \u201cimprescindibles\u201d no ocupan todo el d\u00eda, y de reservar tiempo para los imprevistos que seguro aparecer\u00e1n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Incluir a toda la familia en las tareas dom\u00e9sticas<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n

Mientras mi hija era peque\u00f1a, trataba de que \u201cayudase\u201d en todas las tareas posibles. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pon\u00edamos m\u00fasica y bail\u00e1bamos mientras lav\u00e1bamos los platos o hac\u00edamos las camas. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Adem\u00e1s de ser un precioso momento en familia, se convertir\u00eda en una importante experiencia de aprendizaje. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Ahora que es m\u00e1s grande, ella tiene sus propias tareas. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Esto le ayuda a desarrollar su responsabilidad, y descarga a sus padres de trabajo, con lo cual tienen m\u00e1s tiempo para ella.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cultivar nuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n

Y el truco que mejor me funciona es tener constantemente en mi mente la frase de <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Gordon Neufeld:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a> \u201cLa relaci\u00f3n importante\u201d. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Cultivar una relaci\u00f3n \u00edntima y de confianza con nuestros hijos es nuestro llamado m\u00e1s elevado y nuestra principal misi\u00f3n. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Esa relaci\u00f3n es todo lo que necesitan para descubrir qui\u00e9nes son y encontrar su lugar en el mundo.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

No siempre podremos complacerlos. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Algunas tareas no pueden esperar. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Y es en esos momentos cuando aprender\u00e1n la importancia de la responsabilidad, aprender\u00e1n a esperar, y de paso desarrollar\u00e1n su creatividad. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero nunca, m\u00e1s de lo imprescindible.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Este es su momento. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Nuestro momento. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Alg\u00fan d\u00eda, mi hija estar\u00e1 lista para volar, y se marchar\u00e1. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Entonces volver\u00e9 a tener tiempo de sobra y mi casa volver\u00e1 a brillar como el cristal. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Pero a\u00fan no. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Este es su momento, y necesito asegurarme de no lamentar ni un minuto de los que la vida me regale a su lado; <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>mirar atr\u00e1s y sonre\u00edr recordando todas las cosas que hemos hecho juntas, sin tener que lamentar todas las cosas que no hicimos.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Necesito que, despu\u00e9s de volar, mi “peque\u00f1a” vuelva a casa de vez en cuando para recibir m\u00e1s del amor y la atenci\u00f3n que recibi\u00f3 en su hogar. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Y cuando eso suceda, dejar\u00e9 lo que est\u00e9 haciendo y me sentar\u00e9 con ella a re\u00edr, llorar, jugar y recordar.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00bfCu\u00e1les son tus estrategias para construir relaciones familiares s\u00f3lidas?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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