QUESTIONS ABOUT HOME SCHOOLING IN GENERAL
What do students do all day?
There is no typical day for homeschooled children. They learn through a variety of activities such as family and independent reading, discussion and conversation, play, attending outside classes, volunteer community work, and apprenticeships. Homeschooled children will have some time on their own at home to read, play with friends, build, draw, write, do a science experiment, work on math, and more. They also have time with their parents that includes getting help, talking, or doing some kind of focused project together, and some time with others outside the home, e.g. in a music class, in Scouts, in a homeschoolers book discussion group, or in a volunteer job at a museum. Some families set aside a part of the day for focused academic work; others do not. This could vary for each child and the family often adapts its schedule as the children grow.
What about socialization?
This is a common concern when starting to home school. Not to worry! Studies have shown that homeschoolers have a more positive self-concept than their traditional school peers. They are more likely to have friends of all ages and are free of the cliquish, exclusive behavior so common in school. Research measures include peer interaction, self-concept, leadership skills, family cohesion, participation in community service, and self-esteem. Homeschooled students are regularly engaged in neighborhood activities and scouts, 4-H, sports teams, theater, music, dance or gymnastics, art classes, church youth groups, support groups, as well as the Clonlara Commons, our secure, private internet-based community. The research base on adults
who were home educated is growing, too. Thus far it indicates that they participate in local community service, vote and attend public meetings more frequently than does the general population, and go to and succeed at college at an equal or higher rate than the general population. Please visit the National Home Education Research Institute (www.nheri.org) for more statistical information.
Is home schooling legal?
Yes, it is legal. Clonlara's founder, Dr. Pat Montgomery was instrumental in making it safe to home school in all 50 states. See our History for more information. Your materials from Clonlara will include information on homeschooling regulations where you live.
Do I need to be with my children all day while they are learning?
Learning happens all the time, not just between certain hours or with certain people. Homeschooling doesn't have to mean sitting with your children six hours a day and giving them lessons. Some parents combine part-time work with homeschooling, some even manage to work full-time and still allow their children to learn at home, while some forego paid work to be home with their children. You may find that you enjoy learning along with your homeschooler. Many children typically have several activities outside the home. They may have relationships with adult friends or mentors, and are usually interested in what you are doing. Generally, you will not be the only one working with your children or helping them learn.
How can I learn if I don't use textbooks?
Textbooks serve a useful purpose in many subjects, the college prep series in math in particular. However, using textbooks can be confining when a student could be exploring a lake or wetland for biology or visiting city hall or the state capital for government. There are many topics for which there are few if any textbooks.
How can I help my child learn the subjects I don't understand?
Homeschooling doesn't mean that the parents are the only people from whom the child learns. Parents are facilitators, helping their children seek out information and find capable tutors or mentors. Homeschooled children may become interested in a subject or involved in an activity their parents know little about, and that's fine since parents and mentors can help students connect with a world of resources. You may have friends and relatives who are proficient in certain disciplines and would enjoy sharing what they know. Also, many homeschooled high school students take advantage of attending classes at their local community colleges. We can transfer those credits. Your Advisor will explain this more fully.
My student is a teenager. How successful is homeschooling teenagers?
More and more teenagers are leaving traditional school and becoming homeschoolers. There are also increasing numbers of teenagers who have homeschooled their entire lives. They are able to study subjects in more depth, take advantage of learning through internships, and to work and travel in ways not available to students in traditional learning situations. Teens enjoy the independence of homeschooling that gives them time to discover what they really love to do. Teenage rebellion is rare in a system when the teen has choices. A good book to read is "The Teenage Liberation Handbook" by Grace Llewellyn.
What is unschooling? How is it different from homeschooling?
Unschooling usually refers to learning by experience without assignments. Other descriptions include "living as learning," "organic learning" and "child-led learning." It is one type of homeschooling.
How many homeschoolers are there in the U.S.?
There were an estimated 1.9 to 2.4 million children (in grades K to 12) home educated during 2005-2006 in the United States. However, no one really knows for sure, since not all states require homeschoolers to register with a central location. In states where such figures are available, it is clear that the number of homeschoolers has grown substantially over the past ten or fifteen years. For more statistical information, check with the National Home Education Research Institute.
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